Coping with grief is hard enough without the responsibility that comes with handling the details as well. This checklist may help you deal with some of the more practical items so your attention can be better spent with family and friends.
With the rising popularity of cremation, it is likely that you or a loved one is considering it over a traditional burial. There are lots of reasons why it’s a good option including expense, requiring less labor, and it’s better for the environment than being buried in a grave.
However, many people don’t know what they want to do with a loved one’s ashes after cremation. There are more laws and regulations for ash scattering than many people think, make sure you know some of the regulations on where and how ashes can be spread.
Regulations on spreading ashes are predominantly enforced and managed by the Environmental Protection Agency(EPA) in the United States. A large portion of the restrictions over how and where you spread ashes come from property disputes or environmental safety concerns.
One of the best ways to make sure that your loved one’s ashes are scattered legally is to contact an ash scattering service. These little known businesses, like Rest Ashured, know the laws in their areas and can ensure that cremated ash is scattered properly. Rest Ashured offers a mountain scatter garden, a memory tree, burial at sea in the Outer Banks, and aerial scattering over the Peaks of Otter.
Having a burial at sea for your cremated loved one is harder than you may think. Due to the potential for pollution and environmental concerns, the EPA regulates what you can put in the waters in and around the USA.
You are legally allowed to spread ashes at sea as long as you are no more than three nautical miles off the coast. However ashes, and other organic items like flowers, are the only things you are allowed to spread. Anything else you decide to put in the water in considered a pollutant and is illegal under the Clean Water Act. By federal law, scattering ashes in wading pools or directly on beaches is illegal.
Make sure you inform the EPA where you plan on spreading ashes and they can give your further information on what is and is not allowed. They will also put you in contact with the proper authorities so that you’re aware of any local or state law governing scattered cremated remains.
Rest Ashured’s burial at sea service takes place in the Outer Banks in North Carolina. Our team visits regularly, and hires a boat captain to scatter your loved one’s ashes off shore.
If you have plans to scatter your loved one’s ashes in inland waters, definitely check with the EPA as well as the local authority beforehand. Often, you’ll need a special permit to scatter your loved one’s ashes in a local waterway. Make sure you apply for these permits in advance, especially if you and your family members plan on having a ceremony for the scattering.
There is also a concern about spreading your ashes on private land. If you choose to scatter your ashes in land you own or public land that is typically allowed. However, if you decide to spread your ashes on someone else’s property though, you must get the permission of the land owner.
Places such as National Parks and theme parks are very common places to want to scatter ashes. National parks are public land, and you simply need a permit. These permits are usually rather affordable, between $25-75 per permit.
However, theme parks are considered private property. Scattering ashes in those places will, at best, get you removed. Often, the ashes won’t stay where you scattered them, the employees have to remove them in theme parks like Disney World.
Scatter gardens are a great option for people looking for a public area in which to scatter their loved one’s ashes. Often, cemeteries have scatter gardens that you can use. They can cost money, but it depends on the scatter garden options in your area.
Memory trees are another potential scatter garden option. A memory tree is a tree that’s been planted for your loved one, with their ashes scattered at the roots during the planting process.
Rest Ashured’s scatter garden is uniquely located in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, with views of the James River. Memorial stones and memory trees for people’s loved ones are close to the beautiful space.
Having your loved one’s ashes released from an airplane has become very common in recent years. While you’re allowed to travel with cremated ashes in your carry on bag on most airlines, it’s not recommended. And there’s really no way to release the ashes in a sealed passenger plane. This means it’s significantly easier to hire a service specifically for this, such as our Aerial Scattering.
Because of the disparity between the laws across states and localities, and because of the federal regulation of scattered ashes, it can be difficult to figure out what to do. It’s often safest to hire a specialist to scatter the ashes to ensure your loved one gets the final resting place they deserve!